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从我小时候开始,我爸最常对我说的话就是:“你总是这么奋不顾身的去帮助人,但是当你危难的时候,又有谁来帮助你呢?”

我几乎全家都有这样的“烂好人”属性,导致我们家的每个人都会对“利他主义”有着痛彻心扉的认知,劝告自己在意的人时都会希望对方自私一些来保护自己,但是却总是会做着一遍又一遍吃力不讨好的事情。

仔细想想,我好像从小时候开始就习惯了去一遍又一遍的去帮助人,然后一遍又一遍的吃力不讨好,一遍又一遍的帮了别人却又得不到别人的回报,一遍又一遍的被恩将仇报。

我总是自己不常在乎这些,但是当我看到和我相似的烂好人总是遭遇这些相同的境地时,时常感叹造化不公。

我自己习惯了受苦受累,但是又从什么时候开始,我又习惯性的带着和我亲近的人一起受苦受累呢?

无可否认,大多数能和我亲近的人,常常都和我一样多少带有一些“烂好人”属性。但是我时常会想,我的初衷莫不是曾经最朴素的“好人有好报”。但是最终的结果呢?和我一遍又一遍的透支着自己吗?

至少,在这个“好人被拿枪指着”的世界里,我希望能让亲近我的“烂好人”们,能在我的努力下,得到保护吧。而这样,是救助了再多人,也换不回来的。



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从我小时候开始,我爸最常对我说的话就是:“你总是这么奋不顾身的去帮助人,但是当你危难的时候,又有谁来帮助你呢?”

我几乎全家都有这样的“烂好人”属性,导致我们家的每个人都会对“利他主义”有着痛彻心扉的认知,劝告自己在意的人时都会希望对方自私一些来保护自己,但是却总是会做着一遍又一遍吃力不讨好的事情。

仔细想想,我好像从小时候开始就习惯了去一遍又一遍的去帮助人,然后一遍又一遍的吃力不讨好,一遍又一遍的帮了别人却又得不到别人的回报,一遍又一遍的被恩将仇报。

我总是自己不常在乎这些,但是当我看到和我相似的烂好人总是遭遇这些相同的境地时,时常感叹造化不公。

我自己习惯了受苦受累,但是又从什么时候开始,我又习惯性的带着和我亲近的人一起受苦受累呢?

无可否认,大多数能和我亲近的人,常常都和我一样多少带有一些“烂好人”属性。但是我时常会想,我的初衷莫不是曾经最朴素的“好人有好报”。但是最终的结果呢?和我一遍又一遍的透支着自己吗?

至少,在这个“好人被拿枪指着”的世界里,我希望能让亲近我的“烂好人”们,能在我的努力下,得到保护吧。而这样,是救助了再多人,也换不回来的。

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