The rules of life are the guiding principles that will help you get more out of life, shrug off adversity more easily and generally be a happier, calmer, more fulfilled person. you'll feel the benefits, and so will every one around you.
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RULE #1
Keep it under your hat
You are about to discover ways to become positive, happier, more successful in everything you do. So there’s no need to say anything to anybody about it. Keep quite. No one likes smart arse. That’s it first rule keep it under your hat.
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Keep it under your hat
You are about to discover ways to become positive, happier, more successful in everything you do. So there’s no need to say anything to anybody about it. Keep quite. No one likes smart arse. That’s it first rule keep it under your hat.
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Life, how do we define it? Is it living everyday like its the same or is it about making a difference in other people's lives .......well in our perspective life is all about making an influence and not living everyday like its the same.....so live but also make a difference.
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Rule #2
You'll get older but not necessarily wiser
Wisdom isn't about not making mistakes but about learning to escape afterwards with our dignity and sanity intact.
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Wisdom isn't about not making mistakes but about learning to escape afterwards with our dignity and sanity intact.
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Rule #3
Accept what is done is done
People make mistakes. Sometimes very serious ones. As often as not, the mistakes aren’t deliberate or personal. Sometimes people just don’t know what they are doing. This means that if, in the past people behaved badly towards you, it wasn’t necessarily because they meant to be horrid, but because they were as native, as foolish, as human as the rest of us. What is done is done and you need to just get on with things. Don’t use the labels 'good’ and 'bad’. You could let all these things get you down, fizzle away internally like some emotional acid making you ill and resentful and stuck. But you will let them go, embrace them as character forming and in general as positive rather than negative.
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Accept what is done is done
People make mistakes. Sometimes very serious ones. As often as not, the mistakes aren’t deliberate or personal. Sometimes people just don’t know what they are doing. This means that if, in the past people behaved badly towards you, it wasn’t necessarily because they meant to be horrid, but because they were as native, as foolish, as human as the rest of us. What is done is done and you need to just get on with things. Don’t use the labels 'good’ and 'bad’. You could let all these things get you down, fizzle away internally like some emotional acid making you ill and resentful and stuck. But you will let them go, embrace them as character forming and in general as positive rather than negative.
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Rule #4
Accept yourself
You don't have to improve or change or strive for perfection. Quite the opposite. Just accept.
That means accepting all the warts and emotional lumps and bumps, the bad bits, the weakness and the rest of it. This doesn't mean we are happy with everything about ourselves, or that we are going to be lazy and lead a bad life. We are going to accept the way we are, initially, and then build on that. What we are not going to do is beat ourselves up because we don't like some bits. Yes, we can change lots but that will come later. We are only up to Rule 4 here.
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Accept yourself
You don't have to improve or change or strive for perfection. Quite the opposite. Just accept.
That means accepting all the warts and emotional lumps and bumps, the bad bits, the weakness and the rest of it. This doesn't mean we are happy with everything about ourselves, or that we are going to be lazy and lead a bad life. We are going to accept the way we are, initially, and then build on that. What we are not going to do is beat ourselves up because we don't like some bits. Yes, we can change lots but that will come later. We are only up to Rule 4 here.
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Rule #5
Know what counts and what doesn't
Focusing on what is important to you in your life, and making positive changes to ensure you feel happy with what you are dedicating your life to (we'll see about this on Rule #6). This doesn't mean long-term plans mapped out to the smallest detail. It means knowing roughly where you are going and what you are doing. Awake rather than asleep.
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Know what counts and what doesn't
Focusing on what is important to you in your life, and making positive changes to ensure you feel happy with what you are dedicating your life to (we'll see about this on Rule #6). This doesn't mean long-term plans mapped out to the smallest detail. It means knowing roughly where you are going and what you are doing. Awake rather than asleep.
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Rule #6
Dedicate your life to something
To know what counts and what doesn't, you have to know what you are dedicating your life to. There are, of course, no right or wrong answers to this one as it's a very personal choice - but it's really useful to have an answer, rather than not really knowing.
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Dedicate your life to something
To know what counts and what doesn't, you have to know what you are dedicating your life to. There are, of course, no right or wrong answers to this one as it's a very personal choice - but it's really useful to have an answer, rather than not really knowing.
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Rule #7
Be flexible in your thinking
You have to see life as a serious of adventures. Each adventure is to have fun, learn something, explore the world, expand your circle of friends and experiences , and broaden your horizons. Shutting down to adventure means exactly - that you are shut down.
Try to see life not as the enemy, but as a friendly sparring partner.
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Be flexible in your thinking
You have to see life as a serious of adventures. Each adventure is to have fun, learn something, explore the world, expand your circle of friends and experiences , and broaden your horizons. Shutting down to adventure means exactly - that you are shut down.
Try to see life not as the enemy, but as a friendly sparring partner.
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Rule #8
Take an interest in the outside world.
You may be wondering why this rule is here and not in the section about the wider world. well, this one is about you. Taking an interest in the outside world is about developing you for yourself. I'm not suggesting you have to watch the news constantly but by reading, listening and talking, we keep abreast of what is happening. The happiest, most well-balanced, most successful people in life are those who are part of something. And the most interesting, stimulating people to be around are those who take interest in what's happening around them.
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Take an interest in the outside world.
You may be wondering why this rule is here and not in the section about the wider world. well, this one is about you. Taking an interest in the outside world is about developing you for yourself. I'm not suggesting you have to watch the news constantly but by reading, listening and talking, we keep abreast of what is happening. The happiest, most well-balanced, most successful people in life are those who are part of something. And the most interesting, stimulating people to be around are those who take interest in what's happening around them.
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Rule #9
Be on the side of the angles, not the beasts.
Every single day of our lives we are faced with an immense number of choices. And each and every one of them usually boils down to simple choice between being on the sides of the angles or the beasts. Every action we make has an effect on our family, people around us, society, the world in general. It's our choice. And sometimes it's difficult choice. We get torn between what we want and what is good for others. Look, no one said its going to be easy. And making a decision to be on the side of the angles is a tough call. But if we want to succeed in this life then we consciously have to do this.
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Be on the side of the angles, not the beasts.
Every single day of our lives we are faced with an immense number of choices. And each and every one of them usually boils down to simple choice between being on the sides of the angles or the beasts. Every action we make has an effect on our family, people around us, society, the world in general. It's our choice. And sometimes it's difficult choice. We get torn between what we want and what is good for others. Look, no one said its going to be easy. And making a decision to be on the side of the angles is a tough call. But if we want to succeed in this life then we consciously have to do this.
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Rule #10
Only a dead fish swim with the stream.
Life is difficult. And the rule is to thank God. If it was all fluffy and easy we wouldn't be tested, tried, forged in the fire of life. We wouldn't grow or learn or change, or have a chance to rise above ourselves. If there was no rain, then there wouldn't be any feeling of great joy when it finally stopped and we couldn't go to the beach. If it was all easy we couldn't get stronger. So, be thankful. Recognize that only a dead fish swim with the stream. For the rest of us there's will be times when it's up an hill, upstream struggle. We have to keep swimming or get swept away. And that's what life is, what it is meant to be: a series of struggles and lulls.
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Only a dead fish swim with the stream.
Life is difficult. And the rule is to thank God. If it was all fluffy and easy we wouldn't be tested, tried, forged in the fire of life. We wouldn't grow or learn or change, or have a chance to rise above ourselves. If there was no rain, then there wouldn't be any feeling of great joy when it finally stopped and we couldn't go to the beach. If it was all easy we couldn't get stronger. So, be thankful. Recognize that only a dead fish swim with the stream. For the rest of us there's will be times when it's up an hill, upstream struggle. We have to keep swimming or get swept away. And that's what life is, what it is meant to be: a series of struggles and lulls.
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Rule #11
Be the last to raise your voice
For me this is a really hard one. I do love to have a good shout. I have shouted at various times and invariably I regret each and every occasion. I know I know, there are all sort of situations where shouting seems appropriate - the dog stealing Sunday dinner; the kids won't tidy their room; your computer has crashed and the repair department won't fix it quickly enough; they put up the closed sign just as you get to the counter; someone is being stupid and deliberately choosing to misunderstand you. And on and on. But if you take this rule as simple 'I don't do shouting', it becomes an easy benchmark to stick to. You get known as someone who is incredibly calm no matter what is happening. Clam people get trusted. Calm people get relied on. Calm people get looked up to and given responsibility. Calm people last longer.
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Be the last to raise your voice
For me this is a really hard one. I do love to have a good shout. I have shouted at various times and invariably I regret each and every occasion. I know I know, there are all sort of situations where shouting seems appropriate - the dog stealing Sunday dinner; the kids won't tidy their room; your computer has crashed and the repair department won't fix it quickly enough; they put up the closed sign just as you get to the counter; someone is being stupid and deliberately choosing to misunderstand you. And on and on. But if you take this rule as simple 'I don't do shouting', it becomes an easy benchmark to stick to. You get known as someone who is incredibly calm no matter what is happening. Clam people get trusted. Calm people get relied on. Calm people get looked up to and given responsibility. Calm people last longer.
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Rule #12
Deep down within all of us is a fount of wisdom. This is called intuition. Listening to your intuition is a slow learnt process. It starts by recognizing that the tiny inner voice or feeling that will tell you when you've done something you shouldn't have. You might call it your conscience if you like, but deep down you know when you've done something bad. You know when you've got to apologize, make amends, put things right. You know. And I know you know. I know because we all know. Quick point of clarification here. When I say listen, I dont mean listen what goes on in your head. Now that really is where madness lies. No, I mean Stiller, quieter voice. For some it's more a feeling than a voice - what we sometimes call gut instinct. What we are about to do, big decisions we have to make, why we are here behaving in the way we are. You already know the answer, if you ask yourself.
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Deep down within all of us is a fount of wisdom. This is called intuition. Listening to your intuition is a slow learnt process. It starts by recognizing that the tiny inner voice or feeling that will tell you when you've done something you shouldn't have. You might call it your conscience if you like, but deep down you know when you've done something bad. You know when you've got to apologize, make amends, put things right. You know. And I know you know. I know because we all know. Quick point of clarification here. When I say listen, I dont mean listen what goes on in your head. Now that really is where madness lies. No, I mean Stiller, quieter voice. For some it's more a feeling than a voice - what we sometimes call gut instinct. What we are about to do, big decisions we have to make, why we are here behaving in the way we are. You already know the answer, if you ask yourself.
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